Being a tall woman is hard. Very tall woman feels like she is not like everybody else. Most women suppose to be short, thin and small to feel feminine and very tall women just don't fit such stereotype.
Very tall women want to be feminine and want to feel beautiful, but instead of feeling beautiful, they often question their own femininity and feel "manly".
You would think how can a tall woman feel this way? It's all in her mind though. How you actually look and how you feel on the inside are too different things.
If a woman was treated good, then she more likely would have a good self image of herself. But if a woman who was treated badly, who has unresolved emotional wounds could feel that there might be something wrong with her.
It could be not her fault if she was abused before but because of difficult past experience she might think something wrong with her, maybe people don't like her for her height or her looks and treat her badly. It doesn't refer only to tall women, but short women as well. Almost every woman has some kind of body issues worries and she wants to feel beautiful, loved and accepted.
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Most of the time yes, it is hard to be a tall girl, mostly because you are are so different and when you are taller than all guys in a room, it makes you feel kind of awkward.
Women just don't like being taller than all guys. When a woman is taller than any man in room, she often assumes that men don't want women who are taller than them. All women want to be accepted and admired by men. So, being the tallest woman in the room makes you feel less attractive to shorter men.
It's not that tall women don't like short men, it's that tall women think that short men don't like them. Tall women assume that most guys prefer to have a girlfriend who is shorter than him. That's why tall women don't always feel desired by shorter men. When a tall woman meets taller man, she has much easier time to assume that he will like her.
For example, once I met a very short guy, he is about 5'8" and I'm about 6 ft, so for a long time I wasn't sure if he finds tall women attractive. I really thought maybe he likes much shorter women. But it turned out he really likes me being tall too and it doesn't bother him at all. So, yes, women feel they are too tall, they feel that men might reject them of find them less attractive for being tall. It's another worry that short women don't have to deal with or worry about.